WHAT A CUDDLE NIGHT IS: A Cuddle Night is a playful, safe, facilitated and fully clothed social event designed for adults to explore boundaries and communication, and to experience non-sexual touch and social affection. However, even though it's called a Cuddle Night, you do not have to cuddle or touch anyone. Note that sitting quietly or alone is considered to be full participation. Cuddle Nights are always about choice. Cuddle Nights always begin with a clear explanation of rules and boundaries. There is always time for questions. The aim is to creat a environment which is safe, inclusive and supportive for all who attend. Saying 'No' to a request to cuddle or be cuddled is supported and encouraged. Saying 'No' is always OK and not taken personally. There are always warm-up processes, including an opportunity to practice saying 'No' and 'Yes' in a facilitated and supported exercise. Some participants cuddle in groups, others one-on-one. Some people like to talk and not cuddle for a time, or not at all. Cuddling can mean feet against feet, full-body hugs, head-rubs, spooning — it's your choice, with the agreement of others. Configurations and positions shift significantly throughout the event. WHAT TO WEAR: Loose comfortable clothing - nothing too risqué. Check with the facilitator before-hand if unsure. Think more comfy than sexy. More drawstrings, less lace! No shorts. Guys, undies please. WHAT TO BRING: You can bring friends. A pillow or some sort of comfortable floor covering is often required, it depends on the venue. Again, you can check with the facilitator before-hand or just bring it anyway. If not needed, you can leave it in the car. Water ONLY and must be in closed bottle. Sorry, no liquor or food. Please be aware that if you are affected by drugs or alcohol, you may be denied entry.                                                                                             Practice Social Affection. Practice Setting Boundaries.  Learn To Say “No”.  Learn To Say “Yes”.  Hug And Be Hugged. STICK TO THE SAFETY RULES: 1. Clothes stay on the whole time. 2. You don't have to cuddle anyone at a Cuddle Night, ever. 3. You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be specific in your request.) 4. You must negotiate a new agreement if you want to change the style of touch. 5. If you're a yes, say YES. If you're a no, say NO. 6. MAYBE means NO. 7. You are encouraged to change your mind (and agreements) anytime you want. Be very clear in communication. 8. Respect your relationship agreements and communicate very clearly if there with a partner. 9. A facilitator is there if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the Cuddle Night. 10. Tears and laughter are both welcome. 11. Respect people's privacy when sharing about Cuddle Nights and do not gossip. 12. Relating your own experience is fine, as long as other attendees can not be identified by your sharing. 13. Arrive on time. Doors MAY be locked after the advised starting time unless prior arrangements are made with the facilitator and are acceptable to the other attendees. 14. Be hygienically savvy (shower and underarm). ‘A Cuddle Night is a structured social event designed for adults’                                          Nivannii Rose Peter Kroll Philip Millroy Nivannii Rose